These are some of the resources I recommend. Use them to create awareness about your patterns and beliefs so you get to know yourself better.


Human Design

Your Human Design chart contains all the information you need to discover the key aspects of your true nature, and where you are here to learn about life. It is a precise blueprint for how you are designed to operate within the world and interact with others.

Get your free test here.

DISC Assessment

The DISC Assessment is a personality test that will help you to rapidly gain insights into your blend of DISC personality and behavioral traits. With this knowledge, you can better connect and communicate with others.

Get your free test here.

Getting the Love that You Want

Discover why you chose your mate. Resolve the power struggle that prevents greater intimacy. Learn to listen -really listen-to your partner. Increase fun and laughter in your relationship.

Begin healing early childhood experiences by stretching into new behaviors with your partner. Achieve a common vision of your dream relationship.

Even if you are not in a relationship, this book will teach you great communication skills and give you some insights into why you are attracting the same type of partners.

Buy the book here.

Attachment Styles

Attachment is an emotional bond that forms in early childhood when we are 10 to 20 months old based on our parents’ behavior.

Unconscious patterns become set in place by the time we are two years old. Our attachment style is at the core of how we form adult relationships whether they are romantic or friendships. 

An attachment disturbance is a dysfunctional relationship pattern that we repeat as adults.

These patterns are a consequence of conditioning during early childhood from our parents or caregivers.

Find your attachment style here.

Five Love Languages

The premise of The 5 Love Languages™ book is quite simple: different people with different personalities give and receive love in different ways. By learning to recognize these preferences in yourself and in your loved ones, you can learn to identify the root of your conflicts, connect more profoundly, and truly begin to grow closer.

Find your love language with this free quiz.

The Way of the Superior Man

The Way of the Superior Man is a spiritual guide A step-by-step roadmap toward the mastery of your true life purpose and authentic tantric sexual practices, sourced in deep conscious presence.

This book is intended for men but I recommend women to read it as well so you can understand your own yearnings and the reasons why you deserve to be pleased.

Check his website here.


The Enneagram describes the nine fundamental personality types of human nature.

It is a condensation of universal wisdom, commonsense philosophy and psychology which provides extraordinary insights into human behaviour, particularly our own.

The primary goal and purpose of the Enneagram is self knowledge; its ancillary benefit is that it allows us to understand the behaviour of others, and with that understanding, to be more accepting and compassionate.

Take the Enneagram quiz here.

Erotic Blueprint

Your Erotic Blueprint is your personal map of arousal

A system created by Jaiya after years of researching the sexual chemistry of couples, is way of categorizing what turns you on, what turns you off, how to create pleasurable experiences and describing what you need and desire. 

The more you learn about yourself and your partner(s), the deeper you can go into intimacy and create long sustainable, satisfying passion.

discover Your erotic blueprint here

Listen to this visualization meditation to guide your steps in finding what your soul desires in a partner


Let’s build something great together.

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